Well…..I am not sure how much I lowered my standards over the week… I think I yelled less, but have noticed myself yelling more at my kids in the last few days. Maybe not more, maybe just on par with the usual amount of yelling. Of course they are responding “Mom, you said you weren’t gonna tell us to do anything.” (not sure I said “anything.”) Lowering my standards was supposed to result in decreased yelling theoretically because I am supposed to be caring less. It is difficult to care less, however. Thus, I am still under the bell of the trusty bell-curve. Here are some highlights of the week:
- I allowed cereal dust that my husband spilled all over the counter when he finished a box of cereal to remain there for several days. I even called it to his attention once. His very selective attention. After about 3 days I cleaned it up.
- I came downstairs early one morning before anyone else and saw something suspiciously dark on the family room floor. Quickly scanning through my brain-file of what this could possibly be, I decided it was likely an ant-covered morsel of food. Bingo! An ant-covered tortilla chip. Apparently we have Mexican ants in Iowa, and they were having a fiesta in the family room. They even called their distant relatives, as evidenced by a trail of ants leading from some nether-region under our house. I am sure you readers are grossed out, but guess what? Bugs live under your house, too. Squatters they are.
- I am pleased to report no poop sightings where poop should not be.
- My husband asked if he had to do his laundry again. Lucky guy, I did it this week. And all the other weeks of our almost 16-year marriage. Darn traditional gender roles…..
- Today I saw someone open a cereal bar and drop crumbs on the kitchen floor. Now this is EXACTLY the kind of thing I was to lower my standards about. I failed, and pointed out said crumbs, which prompted a kick of the crumbs under the stove. I would like to point out that this was done by one of 2 adolescents in the house. You guess which one. mmmm-hmmmm.
So, as you see, I am still in the process of lowering my standards. I realize I probably should have done some data collection on myself to get a baseline standard and go down from there in incremental percentages. There’s always next week…..